is important. Contrary to the way it is perceived, closure does not indicate the end of a relationship ; it just depicts the maturity in that relationship. Usually closure is done implicitly ; Not surprising is it? Its a simple case that people value their relationships greatly and so they never muster the
courage to say 'We'd need to move on'.

For all practical purposes,an implicit closure isnt closure at all. You cannot possibly move to the 7th chapter of a book without finishing the 2nd,3rd and 5th chaptersproperly. Inevitably, you might need to go back to these chapters and 'close' them once and for all. Life isnt any different. Shutting yourself out to a certain set of thoughts, people, work, places and attitudes has to be explicit.Thoughts, gestures have less tangibility than do words. Therefore closure has got to be communicated - explicitly,effectively, assertively rather than in an implicit manner.

This does not apply only to your romantic liaisons. Relationships are all pervasive - you thrive on them. All your relationships-Those at work, those at the tennis club, those in your gymnasium, those in your social circle need to show that maturity. You cannot look in another direction if you continue to look harder in one direction. Think about it.